I think that it's kinda funny that you people you have living with for the past year or so can;t tell when something is bothering you or when your feeling down. But they still ask to borrow stuff sometimes it seems that's all I'm there for, for them. But i can send a text to a friend I haven't spoken too in almost a month asking them if they are okay and I get a message back telling me we need to talk because they want to know why I'm upset. Funny I find